Prompt 1
Describe the world you come from — for example, your family, community or school — and tell us how your world has shaped your dreams and aspirations.
Between the language barrier, the cultural differences, the generation gap, and the unsynchronized schedules, my parents and I never really connected. My mother and father came from Vietnam and settled down in California in 1980. Born in 1991, I am the youngest of six children. My mom worked as a hairdresser from 8:00 AM and came home at 7:30 PM six days a week while my unemployed father cared for the house, cooked dinner every day, and watched over my siblings. Although I could interact with my father the most, his broken English and my broken Vietnamese prevented humor and general comments from achieving the desired effect. Even today I hear accusatory tones in their innocent reminders to wash the dishes. Simply put, I can not say I know my parents very well.
However, through their actions, I know they care. Whenever I needed help with a school project, my mother, despite the long workday, would help without hesitation. My father would take me to and from school whenever rain poured or I risked being late. When I enrolled at De Anza College for summer classes, my dad drove the seventeen mile commute four times a day: twice to drop me off and return home and then again to pick me up. I could play with friends or play video games so long as my homework and chores were done in the end. While my parents encouraged me to do well academically, they never forced me into excellence. Never was Vietnamese school, music lessons, or sports thrust upon me; I was free to do as I pleased. The chores and homework that were expected me could be done at my own pace. I could spend my time the way I wanted. I was free.
Ever since late elementary school I felt like an independent child. My values, ethics, and habits came from me alone. I felt as though my parents played no part in the person I was. Only now do I see the greater picture. If I was a lone figure on an open field of possibility, then my parents were the landscapers. They fenced off negative influences until I became wise enough to avoid them myself. They paved roads that led to the most fertile prospects, but I was free to step off the path. Most importantly, they placed no signs dictating where I had to go. I was free to explore and create myself using the choicest materials that my parents laid down without my knowledge.
I may be making erroneous judgment about my parents again, but their indirect influence is their greatest gift to me. I am driven and confident. I maintain high standards for myself in regards to academic achievement. I have a powerful love for literature, music, and graphic design. I have exceptional leadership skills and a gift for public speaking. I enjoy competition and exercise. However, I have been known as selfish and arrogant at times. I do have my bouts with laziness and indecision. Additionally, my freedom has given rise to some unfavorable habits; one I am trying to break. Nevertheless, I like who I am, and I owe it all to my parents who never said, “You have to do this,” or “You have to be that.”
When the epiphany struck, I knew a career in education was suited to me. I want to pass this indirect influence onto others. I want to inspire children to create themselves the way my parents did for me. I would cater to their needs without directing their lives. Like my parents, I would pave the way, but not fence my students in. They could come to me for advice and help, but I would never force it upon them. If I could nudge just one child towards a similar experience of independence, then my time will have been well spent.
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